Love This Way!
The Love This Way Podcast delivers honest, healing, and transformational conversations about modern relationships, emotional wellness, and self-worth. No gender wars or back and forth, just solid advice to help men and women to find and sustain healthy love. Because love is a journey and you need direction!
Episodes
134 episodes
Your Partner Is Experiencing a Completely Different Relationship Than You
Two people can be in the same relationship…and have completely different emotional experiences.One feels loved.The other feels lonely.One feels secure.The other feels uncertain.One feels stable.The other ...
Why Being Chosen Still Doesn’t Feel Like Enough
Some people are in committed relationships… healthy relationships… loving relationships……and still feel unsure.They were chosen.And yet the questions still come:“Do they really love me?”“What if they change their...
Do You Even Like Your Spouse?
Being together doesn’t automatically mean someone feels loved.Some people are in relationships with partners they don’t tend to… don’t prioritize… don’t speak kindly to… don’t make time for… don’t show interest in… don’t romance anymore....
You Say You Want Honest Communication… Until You Hear the Truth
Almost everyone says they want honest communication.But what happens when the truth is uncomfortable?When honesty is met with defensiveness… dismissal… shutdown… or counterattack… people learn something quickly:Honesty does...
Can Your Partner Affect Your Self-Esteem?
People love to say: “No one can affect your self-esteem because it’s called self-esteem.”But relationships absolutely influence how confident or insecure someone feels over time. Not because they are weak.Because they are...
To The Men Carrying the Weight of the World...
This episode is for the men who are tired… but still standing.The men carrying full loads.The men solving problems no one else even sees.The men who feel like everyone depends on them — but no one asks how they’re doing.So...
Men Fear Failure. Women Fear Abandonment.
Some men aren’t afraid of commitment… they’re afraid of failing the woman they love. Some women aren’t “too emotional”… they’re afraid of being abandoned by the person they trust most.Different fears. Same pain. Same misundersta...
You’re Not Fighting…You’re Negotiating Power
Most of your arguments aren’t about the dishes.They’re about power.Who gets the final say. Who adjusts first. Who apologizes. Who holds leverage.You’re not fighting about the issue. You’r...
You’re Not Incompatible…You’re Emotionally Illiterate
You don’t fight because you’re incompatible.You fight because you don’t know what you’re feeling.Hurt becomes anger.Fear becomes control.Insecurity becomes criticism.Overwhelm becomes withdrawal.Emotional illite...
The Version of Love You’re Chasing Never Existed
The love you’re chasing may have never existed.Not in real life.Not in healthy relationships.Not in sustainable partnership.You weren’t disappointed because they weren’t enough.You were disappointed because it didn’t m...
You Don’t Feel Chosen Because You’re Always Available
You don’t feel chosenbecause you’ve made yourself endlessly available.Access is not intimacy.Availability is not value.And love without intention will always leave you feeling invisible.This episode is about shifting f...
Why Black Love Is Under Attack — And What We Can Do About It
Black love isn’t dying — it’s being distracted, divided, and misunderstood.But we still have the power to protect it, rebuild it, and redefine it.Let’s talk about why Black love is under attack — and what we can do about it.
Who Benefits When You Doubt Yourself?
You didn’t just start doubting yourself out of nowhere.Someone benefited from your confusion. Someone felt safer when you questioned your instincts. Someone gained power when you lost trust in yourself.This episo...
Who Are You — and Who Were You Before Someone Told You Who to Be?
Who were you before someone told you to tone it down?Before you were labeled extra. Before you learned to shrink to make other people comfortable. Before love felt like self-editing.If you don’t know who yo...
You Ask for Real Love, Then Reject It When You See It!
When did love stop being celebratedand start being investigated?Somewhere between heartbreak and survival,we learned to mistake cynicism for wisdomand suspicion for intelligence.But real love isn’t loud.It’s ...
You Loved Them So Much You Forgot to Love You
You gave them everything. Your time. Your energy. Your peace. You loved them harder than you ever loved yourself — and called it loyalty. But now, you’re tired. You’re empty. You don’t even know who you are outside of...
2026 The Year You Finally Choose You (Because the Version of You That Settles Can’t Come With You)
This year, I’m not chasing love that costs me myself. I’m not begging to be chosen in rooms I outgrew. I’m not settling for “almost,” “eventually,” or “when they’re ready.”This year… I choose me.The healed me.
Home for the Holidays—But Not at Peace: The Loneliness No One Talks About
You can be home for Christmas and still not be at peace. Because peace isn’t about proximity — it’s about emotional safety.Some of you will sit next to people this holiday and feel completely alone. Not because you don’...
When You Love Them the Most, They Love You the Least
When you love them the most… they might already be too tired to feel it.Because you can’t break someone’s heart a hundred times and expect them to hand it back like nothing happened.They still care. They still lo...
You Keep Calling It Love, But It’s Just Emotional Cannibalism
You keep calling it love,but it only feels real when someone’s bleeding for it.You say you “love hard,”but maybe you just consume deep.Because what you call passion is often hunger,and what you call chemistry is really chaos disguised a...
The Death of Accountability: Why Everyone Thinks They’re the Healed One
Everybody wants to look healed—but nobody wants to be accountable.Healing isn’t posting your boundaries.It’s apologizing when you realize you were the toxic one.It’s outgrowing your ego, ...
The Cost of Being the Other Woman: What It Really Takes to Break a Covenant
She said, “I don’t owe that woman anything.” But you do owe yourself integrity — and God accountability.You can’t destroy someone’s covenant and expect your love life to stay blessed. You can’t mock another w...
The Case for Love: Why It’s Still the Most Important Thing We’ll Ever Have
Because love is what gives meaning to everything else. It’s what heals, redeems, and holds us together when nothing else can. The truth? The people who live with the fewest regrets are the ones who chose to love — even when it was hard.We s...
You Can’t Pray for Partnership While Living Like You’re the Only One Who Matters
You keep praying for partnership while living like you’re the only one who matters.Love isn’t a stage for your comfort — it’s a classroom for your growth.You want covenant but can’t handle compromise. You want loyalty without sacrifice....
When You Think You Can’t Do Better, They’ll Make Sure You Don’t!
The moment someone realizes you’ll stay no matter what,they stop valuing what they once had to earn.You think you’re showing loyalty —but what you’re really showing is fear.Because when you believe you can’t do be...